The “Yes” that endures

One cannot make a decision without forever rejecting all the other choices. Otherwise we become creatures of uncertainty: naturally we want to say ‘yes’ but only for the moment, without any intention of lasting in our resolve

Yet another 45-year-old man tells his story in a way that has become all-too-common: “When I got married, I always felt awkward in different situations; I lacked the distance, the clarity of sight. Now I have met the woman of my life.” Of course at 23 this man could not see everything clearly. But when does he acquire that ability?

One cannot make a decision without forever rejecting all the other choices. Otherwise we become creatures of uncertainty: naturally we want to say ‘yes’ but only for the moment, without any intention of lasting in our resolve.

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